How Do You Make Your Ex Want You Again?
Is there really a way to make your ex want you again? Many people say there isn’t a chance, but science says it’s possible.
Whether we like it or not, we are all responsible for our own place in life based on the decisions we have made. You may say, “I didn’t choose to be broke” or “I didn’t choose to be overweight” and that may well be true. But your past and present decisions put you in that position.
At the time, you didn’t think taking that job or eating that junk food would lead to the consequences that it has, but the point is this: you – and you alone – are responsible for the decisions that led you to where you are right now. Nobody forced you.
Possibly the only exception on this planet is falling in love. This is the only thing that you can say has happened TO you.
It wasn’t a deliberate decision. You woke up one day and found you had this magical feeling about a person you just met – or maybe you had even known them for years. When you fall in love, it’s like getting blindsided by a truck. It just happens.
Science now confirms there are a number of chemicals released by the brain which cause people to fall in love. These chemicals are released when humans become attracted to an individual.
The reason attraction occurs is because, at a very basic level, we want to reproduce ourselves, and we want the best mate possible in order to produce the finest offspring.
So how does this tie into getting your ex back?
Well, in order to have a chance of making your ex want you again, there are a few things to consider.
First, you must be fit and healthy. Assuming that you want to produce healthy offspring, it is obvious that you want a mate who is fit and healthy in the first place.
Next, you need to be strong and independent. One of our most basic instincts is survival. For that, you need strength. If you are strong, the chances are that you will have a good chance of survival, and therefore be more attractive as a mate.
There is a very good clue here as to what to do after a break up if you want your ex back. Your urge is almost always to contact your ex and tell him or her how much you love them, how much you miss them, and so on. This is completely the wrong move based on what we’ve just talked about.
You’ve probably heard the no-contact rule before. And there’s a good reason for it.
It probably sounded something like, “No contact for the first month”. This means no contact at all. If they text you, you don’t reply.
Because by not contacting your ex for a month, you appear strong emotionally. You have the ability to move on and get on with your life. Or at least it appears that way to your ex.
It also helps if other people are in love with you. Why do so many women throw themselves at Mick Jagger? After all, he’s been called “uglier than a pig’s butt”. So it’s definitely not his looks that attract women.
Yes, he is a rich person and he has power, but he is also attractive because he is a strong individual. From very humble beginnings, he has survived and he has survived well, which makes him an ideal mate.
This gives you some idea into the sort of characteristics you should portray if you want any chance of getting your ex back.
No, it will not work every time, and you may suffer disappointment, in which case it is time to move on. But by being strong and not needy, you give yourself the best chance of creating the attraction that will release the chemicals in your ex’s brain to make him or her fall in love with you all over again.